Winner

Nominated Date -
10-10-2022Nominee Name -
Feathers Teens CIC - Home Ed GroupNominee Service -
Home education group Nomination Details FEATHERS - Finding Encouragement and Acceptance Together in our Home Educations Roles - SEN/SEMH.
Feathers Teens CIC is a home ed group based in Heckington, Lincs, specifically for teenagers with additional needs, disabilities or mental health needs. The founder, Rachel, has gone above and beyond to support my family throughout our home education journey.
I had to make the terrifying decision to deregister my children in March this year as they were struggling so much to cope with the pressures of mainstream education, the schools were offering little to no support, and my children's mental health were suffering as a result, we were dealing with daily meltdowns, self harming behaviours, violence due to the frustration of having to 'cope' all day in school, and then having letters sent home threatening me with large fines and court action over their attendance and lateness when to me it was an achievement to get them there at all!
After deregistering I didn't have a clue where to start, I phoned the council to ask for advice or support and was told that I had made the decision to to home educate my children, therefore I had taken on FULL responsibility for their education and there was no support they could offer me. I felt so overwhelmed and completely out of my depth, I started taking the kids to a small home ed group that Rachel used to run through another charity, I was close to tears thinking I'd just made a huge decision that I simply couldn't handle, but she welcomed us in and instantly made me feel safe and relaxed. She talked us through the process of what would happen next, home visits, education checks etc. She put us in touch with groups for forest schools, activities, educational websites and resources, everything we could possibly need to know.
Most importantly, Rachel reminded me that what my children needed most then, and still do now, is my love and my support, that I made this decision for a reason and that it's ok to feel scared because we all do sometimes, but that I need to trust in my instincts and remember who I am and why I'm here. She reminded me that even if I get it wrong sometimes, and they don't do the work or we take a little while to find our feet, our children can get an education at any age but they only get one chance at life. And she reminded me that no matter what, I would never be going through this alone, whenever I fall, she'll help me back up, because we all know how hard this journey can be, and we all get tired sometimes, but we support each other every step of the way.
I started volunteering with her at the group, I also volunteered for the associated charity, however shortly after I had to step down altogether as I'm disabled myself, and my mobility worsened quite severely, my pain meant I couldn't keep working. But we met other home ed families too who had been through similar experiences, we shared stories, shared resources, supported each other with education and just in life in general.
Eventually Rachel made the brave decision to set up her own home ed group, she hired a hall, funded equipment, designed leaflets, logos, uniforms, and completed hours of endless paperwork and planning, all while working, doing a degree, and home educating her own children! And then Feathers Teens CIC was born...
We couldn't be more proud of Rachel and what she has achieved in such a short time. Since Feathers started we've had private tutor sessions, qualified science and history teachers doing talks and quizzes, hands on science experiments and crafts, we've visited museums, wildlife parks, been fossil hunting on the Norfolk coast, and most recently had a day trip to Alton Towers as a group! And that's just to name a few activities!
Most importantly my children have actually made friends, genuine honest friendships, they're so much happier and more relaxed than I've ever seen them before. To go from having your children suffering from depression and being filled with such sadness, to seeing them laughing and playing with other kids without a care in the world is a feeling that I can't even begin to explain! And that is all down to Rachel and her group, and the kindness and encouragement she has shown us. I honestly don't know how I would have coped these last 7 months without her and the other families at Feathers Teens CIC, they're the reason my children are happy again, and therefore they're the reason I'm happy again too.
So whether they win or not I just wanted to write this as a thank you to Rachel and to all the families at Feathers, I know they can't see it but that's probably for the best, I'm not that great at the soppy things in life :)
but thank you, you guys made our family whole again x