Winner

Nominated Date -
09-10-2024Nominee Name -
Marie TiwariNominee Service -
SENCo Nomination Details I apologise for any language mistakes, I am from Poland and still learning English.
I would like to nominate Mrs Marie Tiwari, a SENCo, who has changed my life, but most importantly, she has transformed my son’s life.
My Son is currently 6 years old. Already in kindergarten,
I noticed that something was happening with my son. He didn't want to play with other children, he didn't speak, he didn't make eye contact with me, and very often, he would have a few seconds of staring into space. He didn’t respond to anything, and I was worried that it might be epilepsy, given that I am a trained paramedic (hence these suspicions). I was full of fears, crying at night, because my lad was about to start school, and he couldn’t handle simple things, and additionally, my poor knowledge of English was a major barrier.
And that’s when, at St Thomas Primary in Boston, our angel appeared —Mrs. Marie Tiwari, a woman who gives her heart to my son every day, for which I am immensely grateful. For me, AUTISM was, and still is, something unknown.
Every child is different, every child faces different challenges, etc. I am learning about it every day, but really, the key person in the life of me and my son is Mrs Marie Tiwari.
Imagine a single mother with a 4-5 year-old child who doesn’t speak much and also doesn’t speak English well, suddenly facing the challenge of autism (initially, I was devastated because it was a very difficult situation for me). After gathering the most important information about my son, this woman immediately started taking action!
She told me about every step, and we spent a lot of time having detailed conversations about her suspicions regarding my son, the school's concerns, and mine as well. Everything was explained to me step by step.
When it seemed like everything was starting to fall into place and the next step was to go to the paediatrician, we suddenly hit a wall - our documents were rejected! The doctor saw no need to meet with my son, believing everything was fine without ever having seen him!
My world collapsed then. I knew perfectly well that my son needed HELP and that the doctor wouldn't help him. I didn’t have the strength to keep fighting. I cried at night because I felt like I had failed my only child. (As I mentioned, I’m a paramedic, and when I worked on an ambulance in Poland, I always fought until the end when I was saving lives. But in this situation, I cried like a little child because I couldn’t do anything! It was terrible.)
And just then, when I had no strength left to fight for my son, Marie Tiwari did absolutely everything to ensure that we got that meeting with the paediatrician.
And IT HAPPENED! Our story is long…
Every day she fights for my son. In Year 1, she was his teacher, and during that time, my son developed incredibly. She built a relationship with him that no one else could! Marie is the only teacher he trusts.
TODAY she is no longer his teacher, but my son cannot imagine starting his day without hugging her and checking if she’s still at school.
I can see how much work has been put into getting us to the place we are today. If it weren’t for her helping hand when I had no more strength to fight for my own child, things could have ended differently.
I know that my son has a long road ahead of him and will have to overcome many more obstacles (the waiting times for specialists are terrifying). But I also know that with the support Marie Tiwari gives us, we can overcome anything! I thank God every day that we have her, and I cannot imagine life without her.
THANK YOU, Marie Tiwari, for everything you do for us.
You are the most important person in our lives, giving us your heart.